recipe
i was thinking about relationships the other day and came to realise 3 important steps in each and every relationship:
the first time you organise an event together (or assist at) and here the range can vary- an ambiental concert given by the kids within the belgian embassy, a qbp, a bumpy road together in a the back of a van with press releases flying all over, a trip to snowy giron on a sunday...
then there comes the time when you take your coffee mug over- which can be grasped as either marking your territory or just assuring basic igienical conditions....
and last- the first time you order Chinese together- a rice to begin with (shrimp or vegies recommended), choosing the topping,the matching chicken....waiting for the order (in the least 3 hours!) ..then enjoying the order and wishing for water....
a 4th-optional- moment might be the first time you enjoy the other's liitle delicacies- spotted banannas or chocolate with chili filling are only two examples.
enjoy!